□p>There i□ □ certain □race and□charm that co□e□ w□th□□e□n□ a la□y. It is no□□j□st □□out o□twa□d app□arances, but also a□out the way one carrie□ □hemselves and □onduct□ thei□ act□□ns. For a long t□me, I □idn't pay much at□en□ion□to cultivating these□q□□lities□withi□ m□self. Ho□□v□r, as I have grown older, I h□□□ com□ to realize□t□e importa□ce of □mb□dying the□essen□e of □ la□y in□my daily life.<□p>